The twin bedroom gets a bad rap.  Often scorned and deemed a “B” room assignment by some, I am here to put in a good word for the twin room.  My husband and I have 5 children and large extended families on both sides.  Luckily, our children seem to have a lot of friends who come to visit.  Sleeping large crowds can be  challenging and my daughter, from age 5, has been a master at sketching a room assignment chart for big holidays or vacation visits.  This is when twin rooms show their merit.  Two sons arriving with girlfriends who have never met?? They are happy to twin-it but would rather not share a bed with a stranger.  All-male golf or fishing outing? Same thing–a twin will suit but no shared beds for the guys.  And we can’t forget all the times the the other twin bed has happily housed your child’s sleepover guest.


After some research I have identified several reasons why twins are deemed less comfortable.  When purchasing mattresses, most shoppers are comfortable splurging on a bedroom mattress if it’s a king or queen but they are inclined to shop a lower price point for a twin.  Consider upgrading to a high quality twin and always purchase a twin that’s extra long in length.  Two twins don’t make a king but two XL twins are the same size as a standard king.  This extra length makes all the difference, especially for anyone over 5’10”.  The same goes for sheets and bedding.  Outfit your twins with same 1000-point thread count as your Master.


Using king-sized pillows at the head of a twin fills the head of a bed nicely for a luxe look.



With fabric panels in lieu of proper beds or headboards, the panels can be adjusted and the beds can be pushed together and dressed as a king bed in a pinch.


Visual symmetry is inherently pleasing to the eye and if you put two well dressed twins on a wall together with a table and and a lamp or a sconce between them it’s going to look great.  Promise.



It’s kismet when all the stars align in a project and the end result is even better than you had hoped for. Good friend and longtime client Nancy reached out to me for some advice on a kitchen re-fresh. Her kitchen footprint is a right-angle space, one part narrow and a little dark, and the other end wide, sunny, and with views of the garden. The original kitchen was in the narrow galley hallway. Our project team and client were enchanted with the idea of relocating the kitchen work area to this bright, sunny space and revamping the original kitchen into a wet bar and butler’s pantry.


Having a long history with Nancy, selections were as smooth as silk. We often found ourselves sending each other the same inspiration visuals. White glossy enamel cabinets mixed with a 10′ gray horizontally-grained island sets the contemporary tone. With limited use of hanging cabinetry, we were able to maximize views into the garden.

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Marble-looking quartz countertops with a simple pencil edge are clean and elegant. In the butler’s pantry we added antiqued mirrored back splashes and bronze metallic grass cloth for a little glam texture.

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Dark floors add visual weight to the ethereal palette.  With an artist’s grasp of color and pigment, Nancy mixed the perfect shade of pink for the walls and ceiling.


I advised Nancy that the cabinet pulls and  light fixtures would be our jewelry. Ever game to experiment, she was on board to bring in rich gold pulls and pendants mixed with a crystal-flowered branch chandelier.

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Selection and placement of artwork was a priority. Richmond artist Frankie Slaughter’s work is featured on the left: (through the Glave Kocen Gallery, 804-358-1890)


Deborah Valentine’s whimsical wall sculpture:  (through Palette, (804) 716-1742)


Fluffing and styling for an RHOME photo shoot in Nancy’s favorite accent color:


Kudos to contractor Jeff Graeber of Graeber Homes and Marvin Daniel of KDW for rounding out our dream team. Enjoy seeing more of this amazing house on Thursday, April 28th during Richmond’s Historic Garden Week Tour.

When a new cookbook comes my way (as a few wonderful ones did this year under the tree),  I devour it the same way I devour the design magazines that are shoved through my mail slot.  There’s nothing better than hearing the dog bark, realizing it’s the time of day for the mail drop, and then hearing that undeniable thump of a heavy design magazine.  Life comes to a halt while I sit down in a sunny spot and admire the combinations of gorgeous homes, bounteous gardens, and original ideas my design peers continue to impress me with.  Now you know what my husband thinks, cookbooks and design magazines are my porn. Guilty as charged.

But back to cookbooks…I generally go all-in, one cookbook at a time, experimenting with recipes and I’m making some good headway working through a darling cookbook called Confessions of a Serial Entertainer by Steven Stolman.  Stolman offers a lot of practical and sage advice. The recipes definitely have a vintage 1960’s simplicity about them.  Most have less than 7 ingredients and are peppered with refrigerator staples…this is not the book for the faint-hearted cook who avoids butter and mayonnaise!  But the recipes are tried and true, uncomplicated and unpretentious, which turns the host’s attention to her guests instead of her kitchen.


Our JMD Christmas gathering is always between Christmas & New Year’s.  I love to host and cook for everyone at home. My newest cookbook was the source of several dishes for our post-Christmas menu.   We started with Palm Beach Cheese Puffs:


Next was Karen’s Special Baked Shrimp & Feta, Tomato Pudding, and Pureed Broccoli.



A group of Interior Designers are highly sensitive to visual stimuli so I made sure I had plenty of time to think about my table. At work, we mix textures and patterns all day and it’s fun to do the same on a tabletop.  Below are different vintage styles of crocheted placemats (somehow my husband & I both ended up with the ones our Grandmothers made),  several silver flatware patterns, multiple stemware styles, and 2 colors of antique transferware plates:



 Place cards at seated dinners make it easy for everyone. These pomanders also smell great and I noticed a few went home in my guests’ pockets.


Roses are reliable but need cajoling to open fully.  I pick them up at least two days ahead and begin the process of trimming the stems and adding warm water a few times…a sunny window helps too.


The right container makes everything easy.  I own these zinc container below in a few sizes.  They  are great for lower arrangements for a seated dinner or for serving a sliced baguette. Containers available through Nest, Manteo, North Carolina (252) 473-5141.


Sticking with a drinks theme or color is festive.  Two favorite “pink” drinks:


Co worker Mary Buford stayed with the pink theme with one of my favorite gifts below. It was a fun night to be the BL!


Happy New Year!

 Last year when we were asked by Traditional Home magazine to decorate our client’s house for a feature in this months’s issue (Nov/Dec 2015), I had a good opportunity to ponder my approach to setting the stage for Christmas.  More than a few loved ones have told me that I need to read one of those books about turning off the Christmas machine, but in the month of December I have too many presents to wrap to read anything at all except my online order confirmations.  I am always racing out for one more stocking stuffer, adding one more gift to balance out the children, and baking for one more friend or a teacher.

Amid my determination to over-do, I have found one thing about Christmas where less is more, and that is interior decoration.  There are no less than 17 large trunk-sized red-topped plastic bins loaded with Christmas décor in our attic at home.  Prior to my less is more epiphany my family would schlep those big bins downstairs, and over the next several days, I would struggle to meticulously place the growing collection of holiday tchotchkes around our house.  In my newer, streamlined  approach, only half of these bins make it downstairs, and mostly they are ornaments for the tree.  True confessions: I haven’t thrown anything away!

Less is more applies in most of our interior design work, and my epiphany redirected me to focus on a few strong elements rather than have a jumble of many over the Holidays.  Start with the strongest element…the tree.   Take advantage of the opportunity for drama and bring home the tallest tree that your ceilings can handle.  In the Traditional Home feature, our client’s tree is both color-coordinated and stylish, with varying shades of  pink glass balls, vintage ribbon candy, and wooden snowflakes.   I also love trees that are dripping with home-grown ornaments and somewhat of a mis-matched jumble.  If the focal point is the tree, then the key is excess. Don’t hold back.

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  I love fresh, simple banister garlands with fir, boxwood, holly, poet’s laurel, and magnolia with a color appropriate ribbon running throughout.  Bringing the outdoors inside can be messy but it’s worth it for that unmistakable Christmas smell.

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Mantles need no more than fresh greens and fruit to feel festive — and of course stockings hung with care.  Favorite Christmas fruit: pomegranates, lady apples and oranges.  I leave a platter of fruit and cloves out for family members to create their own fragrant pomanders.  We call this ritual “cloving” at my house and everyone gets in on the fun, where we often ending up with varying levels of silliness and appropriateness in our pomander designs.

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Bring exterior wreaths inside. The gold magnolia wreath below is stunning but any green wreath is a great addition to an interior door or window.

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Don’t forget your mirrors-they create pretty, reflective backdrops for garlands, lights or wreaths. Repeating consistent elements like adding interior wreaths and the prolific use of fresh garlands and greenery creates a strong, yet simple Christmas welcome.

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Our client’s beautiful Christmas view of the chilly James River:

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Your house is glowing and it’s time to entertain and share it with friends and family.   Pull out the champagne, good china, and sterling and then give yourself a needed break and swing by your favorite take-out restaurant.

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Our thanks again to Traditional Home magazine for the feature and our clients who withstood the Christmas photography home invasion with characteristic loveliness. Happy Decorating!

photography by Kip Dawkins


Challenged with a request from an old friend, we just wrapped up a design project without ever seeing or visiting it. Our extensive library of fabrics, wallpapers and carpets was off limits. There was to be no hunting and foraging for antiques and artwork, and no installations. Without the input of an architect or builder, we provided all of the specifications of the size and finishes, and best of all…LOCATION of said project.  You have probably guessed it ~ this a virtual room ~ completely invented in my design fantasy world.  Anne Tollett of Hanover Avenue has  launched a new business that offers a design service to clients with the need for a design aesthetic and help from a professional on developing it. She can pull together a room for clients in any location and all of the interior products are available from retail or online vendors. With the help of a few amazingly creative and technological whizzes, she does all of this remotely from her computer.  On a very hot and humid August day in Virginia, we selected a humidity-free, oceanfront room in Malibu for the location of our project.  Free from any architectural plans or limitations we indulged in creating a luxuriously expansive space ~ our room footprint is 20′ wide x 35′ long with 12′ ceilings, polished concrete floors and ceilings, bleached pecky cypress paneling and a wall of floor-to-ceiling steel doors. The wood paneling serves to warm up the concrete and the steel doors are softened with gauzy linen curtains.

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Rooms that offer multi-purposing are my favorites and this room doubles as a living/dining space.  Using a broad range of online websites, our shopping sources (all listed on the Hanover Avenue website) are as diverse as the MOMA Museum Store (black Arne Jacobsen egg chair) to Ikea (striped pillow).  Experiencing design when decorating for just me, without a budget (remember this is a fantasy),  and with instant gratification (one click and transaction complete), I remembered why I love design (and internet shopping).

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Using a few of my go-to design credos, this room is a blend of high and low and multiple periods and styles.  While the dining table and side chairs have historic references, the iron chairs and driftwood side table offer  both contemporary and whimsical elements.  Keeping the larger upholstery fabrics in solids, scaling up the size on all lighting, and the layering and mixing of area rugs are further personal favs.  I spotted the vintage pink lucite sculpture at the 1st Dibs showroom in New York this summer and remarked that if I could have anything in the showroom, this would be the thing that would be mine.  In this fantasy (and for two more weeks on the Hanover Avenue website) it is mine.

to view  more of this project and video interview with Anne Tollett:

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At last season’s home furnishings markets we were thrilled to spot a few daring product designers giving a brave shout out to the color red.  Red conjures up strong visuals and strong opinions. Think love, lipstick, Bloody Marys,  Nancy Reagan’s wardrobe, and red geraniums (you may not want them in your garden but it’s a happy Spring day when your nursery is stocked with them).  While we have clients who love red and others who worry that it may not be restful, for me it’s the happiest of colors. I have had a red room in every place I have lived beginning with the childhood bedroom my Mother let me design (red and white ruffled gingham curtains and red shag carpet…yikes!).  Important to note that for some, a little red goes a long way. If a red lacquer dining room is too adventuresome for your taste (albeit very flattering in candlelight), try smaller pops of red in accessories as in the pillows below:


We love World’s Away’s coffee table introduction last Fall:

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A vintage version in similar materials from 1st Dibs:


An antique “throne” settee is revved up with a red cabana stripe.

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Nantucket Red on a guestroom floor at The Ship’s Inn:


A red vanity and graphic wallpaper in a small bathroom:


Wearing red and channeling Bill Blass’s quote, “Red is the ultimate cure for sadness”.

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Organizing and displaying collections takes careful thought.  I always encourage clients to group whatever they are collecting en masse.  It is visually stronger and more interesting  to display a group of similar items in relation to each other.  Most anything can constitute a collection.  I rotate my own collections which range from sort-of special to especially loved.  On a walk through my house one would find collections such as a grouping of sculptures by a favorite New Orleans artist (Julie Silvers),  my children’s primitive pottery, a wall covered with brown transferware, old family sepia-colored photos, and last but best, 15 odd pairs of my boy’s very worn toddler-sized red Keds sneakers.  I have them tied all together as a vertical hanging sculpture.


We recently worked on a project where the client had several wonderful collections but they were scattered throughout the home. On this wall we reorganized a graphic collection of botanicals by South Carolina artist, Becky Davis.

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In this Nantucket Inn, we gathered up a collection of woven lightship baskets and clustered them on a parlor desk.

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Another way to group collections is in a color genre.  In this foyer a collection of artwork in tones of black, white and grey creates harmony with a like-minded palette.


A Delft plate collection accented with Delft lamps and a Delft planter in a breakfast room. If you have a favorite stack of china hiding  in a cupboard, consider grouping them in a fun design on an accent wall.

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Collections don’t need to be costly to be loved.  I am very attached to my dog-eared collection of coffee table books.  I love how our client stacked her own collection. Coffee table book collection turned coffee table!


My client came to me with many great attributes- good taste, decisiveness, and a love for all shades of blue. Her favored palette choice ranges from dark indigo, sapphire, cobalt, to sky blue. (In this case she’s a North Carolina native so it’s a clear Tar Heel sky blue).


Blue and white was our jumping off point for several rooms. In the living room we started with an extensive, albeit unorganized, collection of antique blue and white delft pottery vases and urns. We grouped disparate styles of display brackets over the sofa and washed them in milk paint for continuity.


Generous blue taffeta curtains accented with cut crystal curtain finials add more glamour.


The garden room has a neutral backdrop accented with blue ombré velvet pillows and tie dyed glazed table lamps.

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A grouping of antique blue delft plates and delft lamps mixes with antique table and chairs (side chairs upholstered in blue and white linen ticking).


Festive fabric covers a slouchy sofa in the Family Room with color blocked pillows and a blue geometric rug.

Our favorite blue paint colors:

Benjamin Moore: Alfresco, Glass Slipper, Palladian Blue, & Mill Springs Blue

Farrow and Ball: Dix Blue and Oval Room Blue


I have very talented friends whose brains I pick about flower design on a regular basis. To me it is as if they step into the backyard or garden, clip some errant branches and voila, an uncontrived tablescape masterpiece appears. I have to put a little more thought into these things, but I always look for easy ways to dress my table that don’t require the hunting and gathering of exotic flowers & accessories. Just this week my artist friend Nancy hosted a beautiful cocktail buffet with a standout centerpiece-a small glass cylinder container within another larger cylinder. Beautiful roses were in the center container and exotic fish swam about in the exterior cylinder–I will be stealing that one!

At our holiday office party I ran a piece of simple burlap down the table center and layered low greens (Magnolia, Acuba, and Poet’s Laurel). A few different color ribbons were intertwined with the greens and I used small clusters of roses and pomegranates for added color.

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These placemats were a big hit for the holiday in our JMD Home pop-up shop at the Shops at 5807. (available in gold, silver, and champagne)

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I still love my Herend China that I randomly selected as young bride.

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Miniature sheepskin throws are fun and cozy to add to chairs seats for winter meals.

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It’s easy to recreate a low, long, and seasonal table design with other materials. At Thanksgiving I used a darker burlap, bittersweet vine, small pumpkins, gourds, and sunflowers.

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Ina Garten’s new cookbook makes enjoying your party a lot easier. This week I have prepared the Coquilles Saint Jacques, Moroccan Lamb Tagine, and Tri-Berry Crumbles – all easy and delicious.

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With love and thanks to my special helper.




A few times over the years I have tried to have a simple thematic Christmas tree…one color of ribbon, all the ornaments unified by style or color with coordinated presents wrapped below. I put up a second tree for handmade kindergarten ornaments and those other ornaments of questionable good taste. I quickly realized that the ornaments dedicated to the less stylized tree were by far my favorites and they needed to be front and center during Christmas. These days we have one tree and it is dripping with treasures but a bit chaotic. As careful as I am, every year a few ornaments suffer the consequences of my packaging. I run a sort of ornament triage unit and carefully tape, glue or mold everything back together as best I can. I would love to tell you the family gathers for hot chocolate and cookies as we sing carols and trim the tree but it’s not really the case. My husband does the brute labor of installation and lights and I start hanging ornaments which can be several hours. I love it!

These are the reasons why:


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John’s Snowman

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Robert’s Christmas Tree

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Pierre as a Lower School Boy

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Swain as an Angel

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Isabel as an Angel

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The salt dough ornament replica of my house by my brother, Jeffrey.